Comments on: Memories… http://whoduhthunkit.blogsome.com/2007/01/12/memories/ Me - my days,my nights, my life, my kids, my husband, my relatives, my thoughts...just what makes me ME. Sat, 05 Dec 2009 07:08:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: Administrator http://whoduhthunkit.blogsome.com/2007/01/12/memories/#comment-31 Fri, 12 Jan 2007 22:34:08 +0000 http://whoduhthunkit.blogsome.com/2007/01/12/memories/#comment-31 Ya'll are great and thanks. I don't consider myself amazing at all and you had to have known me before therapy and before my mother in law showed me how to truly be loved and loveable. I got lucky enough to have somene who could "love me over". My mother in law listened to my every concern and encouraged me every step of the way as I blazed a new trail into being a Mom. One day I hope to be there the same way for someone else. Meanwhile, I remain forever glad that my stepmother did not live to long enough to become an issue for her grandchildren. That's a sad sad thought but it saved me having to try and explain why she was the way she was and that it had nothing to do with them or whether or not they were good enough to be loved by her. Ya’ll are great and thanks. I don’t consider myself amazing at all and you had to have known me before therapy and before my mother in law showed me how to truly be loved and loveable. I got lucky enough to have somene who could “love me over”. My mother in law listened to my every concern and encouraged me every step of the way as I blazed a new trail into being a Mom. One day I hope to be there the same way for someone else. Meanwhile, I remain forever glad that my stepmother did not live to long enough to become an issue for her grandchildren. That’s a sad sad thought but it saved me having to try and explain why she was the way she was and that it had nothing to do with them or whether or not they were good enough to be loved by her.

]]> by: Jessica http://whoduhthunkit.blogsome.com/2007/01/12/memories/#comment-29 Fri, 12 Jan 2007 19:18:48 +0000 http://whoduhthunkit.blogsome.com/2007/01/12/memories/#comment-29 I haven't been reading your site long, but I am already impressed by the strong, amazing woman you are. What a triumph of spirit for you to take those awful things and turn them into good, instead of letting them crush you. As parents, we always need to be reminded just how much effect we have on our children. I haven’t been reading your site long, but I am already impressed by the strong, amazing woman you are. What a triumph of spirit for you to take those awful things and turn them into good, instead of letting them crush you. As parents, we always need to be reminded just how much effect we have on our children.

]]> by: Mrs. Schmitt http://whoduhthunkit.blogsome.com/2007/01/12/memories/#comment-28 Fri, 12 Jan 2007 17:55:37 +0000 http://whoduhthunkit.blogsome.com/2007/01/12/memories/#comment-28 It's strange what conversations can dredge up past thoughts and feelings. I even get memories sometimes from smells, sounds, etc. The relationship you have with your children and step-daughter really shines through all of the hurt you have endured. Your step-mother sounds like a true monster. No child should ever have to live with such cruelty. It’s strange what conversations can dredge up past thoughts and feelings. I even get memories sometimes from smells, sounds, etc.

The relationship you have with your children and step-daughter really shines through all of the hurt you have endured. Your step-mother sounds like a true monster. No child should ever have to live with such cruelty.

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